Fat Fat Positivity and Kink- no to Bodyshaming
Body shaming is an unfortunate reality of our society, but the kink world has a culture of acceptance and Fat Positivity that can provide refuge to those in need. Victoria Blisse speaks to her experiences within this space advocating for fat positivity and normal sex practices. Her words invite us all on a journey leading towards more confidence and pleasure through pimping both ourselves -and even our rooms- with care; as she believes it's worth every bit of effort we put into it!
Despite what society may suggest, size should never be a barrier to participating in activities and experiences that bring joy. The kink scene provides an inclusive environment where individuals of all shapes and sizes are accepted with open arms -- something very much at odds with the larger culture which often shuns body types considered "outside the norm". Personally, I was surprised by this acceptance when I attended my first BDSM event as a fat woman; feeling safe knowing it wasn't going to hinder me from having positive experiences or forming meaningful relationships.
Fat Positivity in BDSM and Fetishism
My kink journey began by taking off my clothes, and it has been one of self-acceptance ever since. I have become comfortable in my own body to the point that being naked around other people is no longer a source of anxiety or shame for me. Although stereotypes about fat individuals sometimes manifest within fetish spaces, their capacity should never be underestimated — ultimately encouraging us all to take pride in ourselves regardless of size.
The fuller the body, the greater its benefits for impact play - those interested in striking games should be aware of risks but having a plumper physique is an advantage when it comes to absorbing punches and shocks. With more cushioning on offer than leaner frames can manage, hitting larger areas from longer durations with enhanced intensity makes fatness something extraordinary!
A Rope Bunny in Shibari does not have to be slim
Shibari and rope bondage can be enjoyed by all body types. Despite popular photos that may suggest otherwise, full-figured individuals are not excluded from the pleasure of ropework! With a bit more resourcefulness on behalf of riggers or self exploration, curves don't have to hinder crafty creations: even suspension is possible. Anyone – regardless of size - should never feel limited in what they're capable due to their physicality; it's simply about knowing how best to apply ropes for optimal enjoyment.
Fat fetishes can be a tricky thing to grapple with, as some people may find themselves aroused by fat itself rather than the person. It is essential that if someone desires to explore this type of fetish they do so responsibly and respectfully; seeking consent from those individuals involved before engaging in any activity or exploration. Feederism - also referred to as 'the fetish of feeding/being fed' – requires an even greater level of caution for parties concerned; making sure everyone feels comfortable and safe throughout should always remain at its core.
Feeding Fetish - Feederism in a Respectful Setting
In order to promote health and self-acceptance, it is important for those who engage in the fetish of fattening to do so responsibly. Feeders and fed should be aware that their activities involve potential risks. Nonetheless, these individuals deserve respect - free from shame or guilt - when they choose pursue this kind of expression without any judgement or stigma attached. Everyone can help make a difference by actively standing up against fatphobia which has been normalized much too often in our society; together we can lead us towards an inclusive space where all bodies are accepted with love!
If you're into shibari, take extra ropes and try tying up a fat person - it will be an exciting new experience! Remember to challenge all personal biases by standing up for any body shaming or derogatory remarks about larger-bodied people. Don’t just assume their preferences; ask them directly instead. Let yourself explore the fascinating world of curves, kinks and diverse bodies in a respectful way – everyone deserves appreciation no matter what size they are!
